Definition of a concubine: 

 A female who is or was a slave to the sexual desires of a man, who was usually wealthy or just good at manipulating her mind into believing that this was all she was worth.She was kept soley to be ready when he wanted her to be.  Thats all she was good for....was to please him.  She may perform other duties, like cooking, cleaning..etc  But she was not nor would she ever be honored as his wife.  She could not marry or form a relationship with another man.  For she was the property of the King or the man who owned her.

Today....she is random,  a cut up, a jump off, his piece,  a sample, she is at his service,

                                                                                                        helps him get right (ugh!)or his temp.

A Queen never gets sampled.......

unless she forgets.......that she  is  royalty..

                               Don't forget who you are in Christ.....or you will be dealt with like you are not a lady

A female who was a concubine,  was often misled into believing that she has a position of importance or value, because she has been with him (sexually) or even lives with him.  But the truth is, she is no better than a prosititute ...who doesn't get paid.  When she is no longer useful...he gets rid of her like she 's a soiled disposable diaper.  R U disposable?

Now concubines were kept by the hundreds by Kings and men of wealth.  There were times he may only get with the female once then she was kept as a slave (worker) in the palace or he used her to get busy with his friends. (Afterall, she only was....what he wanted her to be)

 In any case...he determined her worth, by the way he treated her. If you are with some male that is random with you and you keep droppin' everything for him when he gives u a holla ...deal with the fact that he is showing you...what you are worth to him.....like I heard someone say once,

"Dont make some male a priority, that considers you an option". 

Always remember...watch how he treats Jesus...'cause thats how he'll treat you.....

Now get with this, concubines could give birth to the King's children, but they didn't receive the respect or the attention of the Queen's (wifey) children.  Matter of fact, often they were not even consider heirs to throne. (they had no rights to the possessions of the King or the privileges of being a child of the King....(now you know that is messed up)

So think about where u are today?.....don't be subject to some nasty male who just wants to get laid or paid....you are worth so much more than that.   You should be treated with respect and as a person of great value....just the way God intended.. Don't even let there be some talk about some clown having supermanned you....  You are royalty, bought with the blood of Jesus Christ!

You should be treated just like God intended for you to be.  When something or someone is important...(that would be you!) you treat that which or whom is important with great carefulness, respect and are knowledgeable about what is necessary to keep it's value  up and even better than that... increase it's value.  This is the type of treatment you should be getting from a male that you are into...or you need to deactivate him....on tha spot.....

Your worth...should be in the fact that   God loves you......not whether some male wants a piece.

'Cause if your worth  and confidence is knee deep in that fact that God loves you....U won't be random with how u treat urself.....

Now remember ....a concubine is a female who is not legally married to a male...but is with him sexually............( call it staying over, spending tha night, living together, shackin' up, hook'n up,  making love).    U need 2 get this girl......when u roll like a concubine....it like u r treating urself and letting him treat u like you are cubic zirconia ....instead of the priceless ice...u really are.

                       IF YOU SETTLE FOR LESS....YOU WILL BE TREATED AS LESS

    Take this 2 da heart:               NOT HIS WIFEY......NOT HIS  BODY!    

Follow it 2 tha letter!

It is good for a man NOT to touch a woman, but because of immoralities...

each man is to have his own wife and each woman is to have her own husband! I Cor 7:1 CEV

 FOR YOU HAVE BEEN BOUGHT WITH A PRICE; 

THEREFORE GLORIFY GOD IN YOUR BODY

  I  Cor 6:20 CEV